A Firm Handshake
Thinking back on lessons that stuck with me over the years, the good firm handshake stand out. My dad always told me to make sure my handshake was firm, because it was the first impression people get of you. Dad taught me to plant your feet, look the person right in the eye and shake their hand like you are confident in yourself. He told me that people could tell a lot about what type of person I was just by my handshake. Looking back on it I probable dismissed it at the time but subconsciously it has stuck with me over time.
Then today I read an article that that suggests that a handshake is key to interview success. Could my father after all of these years have been right? Well yes it does appear that he was, and I would admit to only you that a limp handshake just does irritate me! I almost immediately move on, part of me secretly thinks this person doesn’t have confidence in their self why should I? Sad but true and now it’s been validated.
So my fellow job seekers for your own best interest learn how to properly share ones hand. I thought you might need some assistance so I dug up the following information Anatomy of a Perfect Handshake:
- Speak Up: Say something when you shake hands, perhaps “It’s very nice to meet you, Mr. Franklin” or “Good to see you again.”
- Get a Grip: Your grip speaks volumes, A limp one suggests hesitance or mousiness, while a bone cruncher can seem overly enthusiastic or domineering. A medium-firm grip conveys confidence and authority.
- Dry Your Palms: Sweaty palms communicate nervousness, which can subconsciously make people feel like you’ve got something to hide.
- Know When to Let Go: The ideal handshake lasts approximately three seconds. The hands can be gently pumped once or twice, and then it’s time to pull back your hand, even if you are still conversing.
So like my dad told me many years ago a handshake does make or break a first impression make sure yours is the right one. If you can develop a solid handshake you will be one step ahead at your next job interview.
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